DON’T TELL YOUR WIFE, OR HUSBAND, OR LOVER, ANYTHING. ONE OUT OF THREE MARRIED COUPLES THESE DAYS EVENTUALLY GET DIVORCED, AND THERE’S NO FURY LIKE THE FURY OF AN EX-SPOUSE SEEKING REVENGE. DONT TELL YOUR KIDS ANYTHING. DONT TELL ANYBODY ANYTHING MORE THAN THEY NEED TO KNOW. DONT CONDUCT BUSINESS IN PUBLIC PLACES. BUY A GOOD PAPER SHREDDER AND USE IT; WASTEBASKET IS NOT SECURE.