I’m going to tell you the truth about
why some men cheat in relationship and you are going to be surprised
to hear that SEX IS NOT THE MAIN REASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH? yes! you
read it right! SEX IS NOT THE MAIN REASON! many people think that
men cheats because of their lack of sex, well some of them do it for
that reason but of Psychologist M. Gary Neuman wrote a book call “The
truth about cheating: why men stray in relationships and what to do
to prevent it” which tell those reason. He discovered that men
cheat in relationships because of the lack of emotional connection!
(sounds like if we were talking about women right?) Let me tell you
something: The fact that men cheat IS NOT JUSTIFY for any reason that
causes his action! For example, what the doctor Neuman mean by
emotional connection is that the man doesn’t feel what he use to feel
with his wife, why do is that? well, the woman has to do with this
too. Men do everything they can to do well and be winners, they
think that winning is the only way to feel like a man since they
were little.(Is a stupid thing for us, Women! but it makes sense for
them.) Women may push theirs parters to the arms of another woman by
focusing in the things men don’t do instead in what they do! This is
very important, women sometimes are criticizing them. There is
nothing men can do to satisfy women most of the time. This is an
example that is in the book, It was George’s wife birthday, he wake
up very early to make breakfast for his wife before she wakes up to
give her a nice surprise. He wanted to do his favorite meal but their
children’s wanted to to pop corns! He accedes do pop corn and placed
them in the microwave but he put more than 4 minutes in the
microwave!, and obviously the pop corn get burn and a nasty odor came
out from the kitchen. Sarah (George’s wife) wake up instantaneously
and start screaming to George and telling him what the hell has he
done not taking in count his intentions! ( women , don’t we said the
intentions are what really count? well if you are like Sarah then YOU
ARE A COMLETLY LIER!) she should focus in his intentions to give her
a nice surprise for her birthday! ATLEAST HE TRIED! and what he
gains? a rude and crazy women that doesn’t APPRECIATE WHAT HE HAS
DONE! this is a turn off for men. They need to be appreciated in
order to feel complete as we, women want that too is in it? well in
order to have what you want you have to give first. and the main
thing we should do is to appreciate little things to make the other
happy ! doesn’t this makes sense? As i said before, CHEATING IS
BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! but we are the ones
who perhaps create it,. SO HAVE IN MIND THAT IN ORDER TO HAVE YOU MAN
WITH YOU, YOU HAVE TO APPRESIATE HIM, SHOW HIM YOU LOVE BUT NOT IN AN
EXESIVE WAY BUT OFTEN IF YOU WANT HIM TO DO THE SAME FOR YOU, IF YOU
APPRECIATE THE LIITTLE DETAILS HE DOES YOU ARE MAKING HIM WANT TO DO
MORE AND MORE, PLEASE DONT LACK HIS WISH OF BE NICE AND MAKE YOU FEEL
GOOD! APRECIATE HIM AND HE WILL DO IT MORE AND MORE. DONT MAKE DRAMAS
AND ACT AS AN ADULT , KEEP IN MIND THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP BOTH NED TO
HAVE THEIR OWN TIME ALONE AND WITH FRIENDS IS NOT QUANTITY IS
QUALITY!!!!!!!!!!!! IF HE HAS A FRIEND YOU DONT LIKE WELL STAY CLOSE
AND DONT SCREAM TO YOUR PARTER COMPLAINING WITH HIM ABOUT HIS FRIEND
BECAUSE WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS LACLKING HIM TO TELL YOU WHAT HE DOES
WHEN HE IS WITH HIM TO NOT CREATE FIGHTS WITH YOU BECAUSE OF THAT
SILLY THING! , INSTEAD OF THAT, STAY CLOSE AND TRY TO KNOW THAT
FRIEND, MAYBE YOU LL LIKE HIM. IF YOU MAN IS A SPORT FANATIC BUT YOU
DONT, PLEASE TRY TO KNOW WHY HE LIKE IT SO MUCH! WHY HE HAS THAT
PASSION! IF YOU DO THAT YOU 2 LL BECOME MORE CLOSE AND WILL ENJOY TO
TALK ABOUT IT, IF YOU DONT AND AVOID HIS CONVERSATION ABOUT IF, WHAT
YOU ARE DOING IS TO PUSH HIM AWAYS AND HE WILL TALK ABOUT HIS PASSION
WITH SOMEONE WHO SHARES IT! MAYBE HE WILL MEET A WOMEN IN THE STADIUM
THAT LIKES HIS FAVORITE SPORT AS MUCH AS HE DOES AND WITH THE TIME
BECAUSE THEY WILL GET CLOSER BECAUSE OF THAT HE MAY BE FALL IN LOVE
WITH HER BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT SHARING THE SAME INTERESES AS HE! IM NOT
SAYING GO AND BE A CRAZY LUNATIC OR THAT BOTH MUST HAVE EVERYTHING
IN COMMON! WHAT IM SAYING IS THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP WHAT MUST WEIGHT
THE MOST IS POSITIVE THINGS AND WHAT YOU 2 HAVE IN COMMON! WHILE IS
MORE THINGS IS BETTER THE BOND WITH YOUR PARTNER. WELL THAT THE MAIN
REASON AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO PREVENT IT. IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU READ
PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT AT LEAST. I HOPE YOU ENJOY READING IT AND
THINK IN ALL THIS STUFF. A RELATIONSHIP IS MADE OF 2 NOT ONLY ONE,
BUT APRESIATION IS NEEDED!!!!! PLEASE APPRESIATE YOU MAN AND GUYS DO
THE SAMETHING WITH YOU GIRLS BECAUSE THIS STUFF APPLY WITH WOMEN
TOO. THERE ARE ALOT OF MEN WHO ARE FAITHFULL AND BELIEVE ME THEY WORTH IT. I KNOW THAT THERE ARE MEN WHO JUCT CHEAT FOR SEX BUT THOSE WHO DO IT FOR THIS REASONS WILL END UP LONELY AND REJECTING FOR THEIR ACTIONS, GIRLS WE HVAE TO BE AWARE OK? DONT LET ANYONE HURT U AND DO THE BEST U CAN IN UR RELATIONSHIP SO IF UR BOYFRIEND CHEAT ON U AT LEAST IS NOT UR FALL 4 SURE
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